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  1. Drzavni servis bira stolicu na koju ce sjesti...
  2. Ne mislim ja na "doprinos" dijaspore u bilo kojem drugom smislu osim u smislu da prihvate i prosire naviku da druge ljude treba putiti da zive svoj zivot na miru, onako kako oni to zele - dok god nikoga ne ugrozavaju.
  3. Kada vidis ovu livadu koju su Z-likovci zasuli sa par stotina granata postaje jasnije kakvom vatrenom moci rasolazu u odnosu na Ukrajinu ... A nema nekih tragova prisustva ni ukopavanja ukrajinske vojske...
  4. A mozda je ipak samo Putinizam. Koji na istorijskoj skali zla gradi svoje ime.
  5. Vilhelmina, moram te korigovati - ove studije ipak postoje, i radjene su iz razlicitih razloga - samo sa jednog sajta sam kopirao sazetak 10 relevantnih studija: 1) Golombok, S., Perry, B., Burston, A., Murray, C., Mooney-Somers, J., Stevens, M., Golding, J. (2003). Children with lesbian parents: A community study. Developmental Psychology, 39(1), 20-33. Existing research on children with lesbian parents is limited by reliance on volunteer or convenience samples. The present study examined the quality of parent-child relationships and the socioemotional and gender development of a community sample of 7-year-old children with lesbian parents. Families were recruited through the Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children, a geographic population study of 14,000 mothers and their children. Thirty-nine lesbian-mother families, 74 two-parent heterosexual families, and 60 families headed by single heterosexual mothers were compared on standardized interview and questionnaire measures administered to mothers, co-mothers/fathers, children, and teachers. Findings are in line with those of earlier investigations showing positive mother-child relationships and well-adjusted children. 2) Golombok, S., Spencer, A., & Rutter, M. (1983). Children in lesbian and single-parent households: psychosexual and psychiatric appraisal. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 24(4), 551-572. Thirty-seven school-age children reared in 27 lesbian households were compared with 38 school-age children reared in 27 heterosexual single-parent households, with respect to their psychosexual development and their emotions, behaviour and relationships. Systematic standardized interviews with the mothers and with the children, together with parent and teacher questionnaires, were used to make the psychosexual and psychiatric appraisal. The two groups did not differ in terms of their gender identity, sex role behaviour or sexual orientation. Also, they did not differ on most measures of emotions, behaviour and relationships–although there was some indication of more frequent psychiatric problems in the single-parent group. It was concluded that rearing in a lesbian household per se did not lead to atypical psychosexual development or constitute a psychiatric risk factor. 3) Wainright, J. L., Russell, S. T., & Patterson, C. J. (2004). Psychosocial adjustment, school outcomes, and romantic relationships of adolescents with same-sex parents. Child Development, 75(6), 1886-1898. This study examined associations among family type (same-sex vs. opposite-sex parents); family and relationship variables; and the psychosocial adjustment, school outcomes, and romantic attractions and behaviors of adolescents. Participants included 44 12- to 18-year-old adolescents parented by same-sex couples and 44 same-aged adolescents parented by opposite-sex couples, matched on demographic characteristics and drawn from a national sample. Normative analyses indicated that, on measures of psychosocial adjustment and school outcomes, adolescents were functioning well, and their adjustment was not generally associated with family type. Assessments of romantic relationships and sexual behavior were not associated with family type. Regardless of family type, adolescents whose parents described closer relationships with them reported better school adjustment. 4) Rosenfeld, M. J. (2010).Nontraditional families and childhood progress through school. Demography, 47(3), 755-775. I use U.S. census data to perform the first large-sample, nationally representative tests of outcomes for children raised by same-sex couples. The results show that children of same-sex couples are as likely to make normal progress through school as the children of most other family structures. Heterosexual married couples are the family type whose children have the lowest rates of grade retention, but the advantage of heterosexual married couples is mostly due to their higher socioeconomic status. Children of all family types (including children of same-sex couples) are far more likely to make normal progress through school than are children living in group quarters (such as orphanages and shelters). 5) Perrin, E. C. (2002). Technical report: coparent or second-parent adoption by same-sex parents. Pediatrics, 109(2), 341-344. A growing body of scientific literature demonstrates that children who grow up with 1 or 2 gay and/or lesbian parents fare as well in emotional, cognitive, social, and sexual functioning as do children whose parents are heterosexual. Children’s optimal development seems to be influenced more by the nature of the relationships and interactions within the family unit than by the particular structural form it takes. 6) Tasker, F. (2005). Lesbian mothers, gay fathers, and their children: a review. Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics, 26(3), 224-40. There is a variety of families headed by a lesbian or gay male parent or same-sex couple. Findings from research suggest that children with lesbian or gay parents are comparable with children with heterosexual parents on key psychosocial developmental outcomes. In many ways, children of lesbian or gay parents have similar experiences of family life compared with children in heterosexual families. 7) Lick, D. J., Patterson, C. J., & Schmidt, K. M. (2013). Recalled social experiences and current psychological adjustment among adults reared by gay and lesbian parents. Journal of GLBT Family Studies, 9(3), 230-253. Children of gay and lesbian parents are a diverse group, but existing studies offer limited information about individual differences in their social experiences and subsequent psychological outcomes. In this study, 91 adults reared by gay and lesbian parents responded to measures of recalled social experiences as well as current depressive symptoms, positive and negative affect, and life satisfaction. Participants reported differing social experiences (e.g., stigma) as a function of their sex, family type, gay/lesbian parent’s sex, and age at which they learned that a parent was gay or lesbian. Despite such diverse experiences, participants reported no significant differences in long-term psychological adjustment. It could be the case that children of gay and lesbian parents learn to cope with difficult social experiences, leading to positive adjustment overall. Indeed, the current sample perceived their social experiences as becoming significantly more positive over the life course, with less stigma and more benefits related to their family situation during adulthood than during earlier developmental periods. Future studies of adaptive coping processes and longitudinal changes in social experiences among offspring of gay and lesbian parents are warranted. 8 ) Gartrell, N. K., Deck, A., Rodas, C., Peyser, H., & Banks, A. (2005). The national lesbian family study: 4. Interviews with the 10-year-old children. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 75(4), 518-524. This 4th report from a longitudinal study of U.S. lesbian families presents data from 78 families in which the children were conceived by donor insemination. Results indicate that the prevalence of physical and sexual abuse in these children was lower than national norms. In social and psychological development, the children were comparable to children raised in heterosexual families. 9) Vanfraussen, K., Ponjaert-Kristoffersen, I., & Brewaeys, A. (2003). Family functioning in lesbian families created by donor insemination. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 73(1), 78-90. The quantitative and qualitative data of this study on family functioning in lesbian donor insemination families reveal that according to both parents and children, the quality of children’s relationship with the social mother is comparable to that with the biological mother. Unlike fathers in heterosexual families, the lesbian social mother is as much involved in child activities as is the biological mother. Furthermore, the lesbian social mother has as much authority as does the father in heterosexual families. 10) Vanfraussen, K., Ponjaert-Kristoffersen, I., & Brewaeys, A. (2002). What does it mean for youngsters to grow up in a lesbian family created by means of donor insemination? Journal of Reproductive and Infant Psychology, 20(4), 237-252. In many countries fertility services still refuse to inseminate lesbian couples because they believe the child’s welfare would be at stake. One of their concerns is that these children will be stigmatized because of their non-traditional family structure. In this follow-up study, we interviewed children from lesbian donor insemination (DI) families about how they present their ‘non-traditional’ family to people in their immediate social environment. We also explored whether or not children were teased or harassed about their lesbian family and whether or not coping with a non-traditional family constellation was reflected in their psychological well-being. According to this study, almost all children from lesbian DI families share the fact that they live in a two-mother unit spontaneously with close friends who react positively. Others are only informed about the non-traditional family structure when they ask questions about it. From the children’s answers, we can conclude that for some peers it is hard to understand that someone can have two mothers without having a father somewhere. Compared with children from heterosexual families, these DI children are not more likely to be teased but they are more prone to family-related teasing incidents. However, introducing their non-traditional family into their peer group does not seem to interfere with their psychological well-being.
  6. Sve OK - nemam ja problem sa pitanjima, nego sa onima koji nisu spremni ni da provjere i prokomentarisu odgovor koji im je ponudjen. Za to nemam ni vremena ni volje.
  7. I te kako ima - ali ti igraj sam - udaraj lopticom o zid kao sto ce ruski teniseri za vrijeme Vimbldona...
  8. Tebe nemam namjeru edukovati - ako na komentar u kojem je predoceno 115 izvora nisi spreman kliknutni ni na jedan to je gubljenje vremena.
  9. B1 Samo ukoliko si licno spreman da tolerises da im se pravi pakao od zivota. B2 Ovo je netacno - postoje brojne studije koje pokazuju da ne postoje razlike izmedju djece odgajane u istospolnim brakovima i djece odgajane u heteroseksualnim brakovima B3 Upravo tako - homoseksualnost je prirodna pojava i to usprkos drustvenim konstruktima kao sto su religije, drzave, zakoni... B4 Pa neka ih oduzmu losim roditeljima bez obzira na roditeljsku seksualnost - na osnovu jasno definisanih kriterija sta je los roditelj. B5 Veoma dobro se zna sta ce da ispadne - ljudi kao i svi drugi, kojima je zivot nesto laksi nego onima koji nemaju podrsku porodice.
  10. Razradjeno vise puta u prethodnim postovima - sa navodjenjem godina, izvora i slicno.
  11. Netacno
  12. Sigurno su spustene zavjese pa se kroz prozor ne vidi sta Duma radi... Upravo saznah i da je Dimitrij Rogozin - saljivdzija
  13. Pitanje o ulozi oca i majke dolazi sa Balkana gdje ogroman broj djece odgajaju babe koje imaju ulogu i oca i majke... Meni na internetu nedostaju izrazi lica i cutanje... Ali da probam da docaram sa stock fotografijom:
  14. Evo daj jednog litvanskog ili estonskog poslanika koji prijeti da ce Rusija biti zgazena kada za to dodje vrijeme pa da kazemo da toga ima na svim stranama
  15. Ma nikakvih problema nemaju - osim prijetnji da ce biti zgazeni kada za to dodje vrijeme - kao smrdibube... Ostalo je sve OK - DOK NE DODJE VRIJEME po rijecima ruskih politicara.
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    Crna Gora

    Marko Orlandic - njega se sjecam jer smo u JNA morali zapisivati vijesti uvece u "Lipa" blokic, ako te prozovu za "dnevno informisanje" na smotri... Marko Orlandic je bio vazna faca u Crnoj Gori kada sam ja bio u vojsci...
  17. Mladene, meni se cini da nasi ljudi jako brzo uce i prilagodjavaju se svemu. Vec trideset godina gledam one koji tek dolaze na zapad (a vjerovatno su neki drugi na isti nacin posmatrali mene kada sam dosao) i dijelom i licno ucestvujem u "formiranju" njihovog pogleda na svijet. I nije tako tesko - istospolne veze su im nesto novo i sa sobom donose nesto tvrde stavove, "sale i viceve" na racun homoseksualaca i slicno, predrasude o odgoju i usvajanju djece - i kada nekoliko puta natrce na prezirne poglede okoline bez ikakvog komentara (ukljucujuci i moj prezirni pogled) brzo se nauce sta je prihvatljivo a sta ne i nakon 2-3 godine i sami pocnu "odgajati" novopridosle. Za to vrijeme obicno upoznaju i nekoliko homoseksualaca koji se ne sakrivaju, i onda je stvar vec gotova - stajes u odbranu prava ljudi koje licno znas - to nikada nije tesko. I svaki od tih reformisanih ljudi ide jednom godisnje, ili jednom u par godina na Balkan... I ako pocnu jednako tako reagovati kada im neko u Hrvatskoj ili Bosni prica iste price koje su mozda i sami pricali prije svega par godina eto drustvene spremnosti da prihvati sve razlike.
  18. Ali iz nekog razloga oni nemaju problema sa drugim bivsim sovjetskim zemljama osim sa Rusijom - ni medjusobno, pa ni sa Ukrajinom, ili cak drugim zemljama koje su bile pod Sovjetima: Poljskom, Ceskom,...
  19. Nekima davno ali su im sjedili u kuci do prije 30 godina... Nekima su usli 2008, nekima 2014, nekima i dan danas razvaljuju zidove...
  20. Sara vjerovatno nije i zbog te izjave je bila predmet sprdnje godinama. Nisu ni Litvanci, Estonci, Letonci, Finci, Gruzijci, Ukrajinci - nisu imali potrebu - njima su Rusi usli i kroz prozor i kroz zid ...
  21. Sta je sa onima koji mogu vidjeti Rusiju kroz prozor a zive negdje drugo? Recimo Litvanija, Estonija, Ukrajina, Gruzija, Aljaska (Sara Palin) ?
  22. ters

    Crna Gora

    Nema tu mnogo razlike u uglu gledanja - Crnogorci su Srbiji sacuvali i obraz i guzicu... Opet.
  23. To su stvari koje prolaze kod ljudi kojima je dosta izivljavanja sitnih cinovnika kojima su izlozeni i koji jedva docekaju da neko maltretira one koji maltretiraju njih. Vladar dijeli "pravdu"... Ja sa spreman uvijek pruziti priliku i pokazati dosta entuzijazma kada god se pojavi neko ili nesto sto bi moglo promijeniti mizerno stanje u kakvom veliki broj ljudi zivi u Bosni, Srbiji, Crnoj Gori... Nadao se da ce Krivokapic/Abazovic/Becic nesto napraviti za Crnu Goru, nadao se da ce prvo Dodik, pa onda Stanivukovic i Trivic nesto uraditi da se stvari u Bosni normalizuju, nadao se da ce Konakovic preoteti glasove Izetbegovicu - i svi ovi imaju gomilu mana, ali bih im dao sansu za razgovore i saradnju (ali ne bih nikada glasao ni za jednog od njih) dok ne pokazu da toga nisu vrijedni...
  24. Sve pokusavam ignorisati tvoje postove - ali ovdje moram: Meni Dodik uopste nije smetao (nikada mi se nije dopadalo njegovo sirovo ponasanje ali ne i politika) dok se nije potpuno izopacio i krenuo putem tvrdog nacionalizma i konfrontacije, cak sam ga smatrao nekim ko moze voditi do pomirenja i dok nije od jedne, realno gledano socijaldemokratske partije napravio tvrdu desnu stranku... Kako ono kazu - mea culpa sto sam vjerovao u Dodika. Na kraju krajeva - Dodik je vjerovatno bio svercer u ratu, ali nije bio zlo kakvo je bio Seselj niti huskac i mrzitelj sve do zadnjih desetak godina, a pogotovo nije - barem koliko ja znam necim doprinio stradanju bilo koga u ratnom periodu. Jednako tako ocekivao sam da ce neko kao Stanivukovic moci napraviti pomak ka naprijed (nazalost, nakon dva slusanja mi je postalo jasno da on stvarno nema nikakav intelektualni kapacitet za bilo sta).
  25. ters

    Crna Gora

    @Avda ZekićOvo je vec razmisljanje u dobrom pravcu... Jesi li bas siguran da si ti mene edukovao? @Perkos2 Zasto onda smetaju samo oni iz Crne Gore? Koji su spasili obraz Srbiji juce?
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